The latest Women in the Workplace report claims women have an “ambition gap.” Their solution? More corporate programs. More manager training. More ways to fit women into systems that are fundamentally depleting them.
But here’s what the data actually reveals: 39% of women entrepreneurs cite “desire to be their own boss” as their primary motivation for leaving corporate, with 29% explicitly naming dissatisfaction with corporate America. Women started 49% of all new businesses in 2024, up from 29% in 2019—a 69% increase in just five years.
These women aren’t lacking ambition. They’re redirecting it toward something I call Sacred Ambition—ambition that’s anchored in alignment, not performance.
What Sacred Ambition Actually Looks Like
Sacred Ambition isn’t about doing less. It’s about building differently.
When I work with high-achieving women, usually in corporate, they’re not burned out on work itself. They’re exhausted from succeeding in a system that wasn’t built for them.
Research shows that the No. 1 attribute women seek in their work is purpose—they want to feel compelled by the mission and understand they’re helping make the world a better place. And women are “less wavering” than men about doing work that doesn’t personally matter to them.
This isn’t lack of ambition. It’s discernment.
Sacred Ambition is:
→ Achievement that nourishes you instead of depleting you
→ Success sourced from your authentic self, not the version of you who performs
→ Leadership that honours both strategy and intuition
→ Impact that doesn’t betray your wellbeing
When women operate from Sacred Ambition, they don’t reject masculine energy—discipline, structure, results. They harmonize it with feminine wisdom: intuition, receptivity, cyclical rhythm.
The masculine provides the container. The feminine fills it with life.
That’s sustainable success.
The Lived Experience: What Women Are Actually Building
Let me tell you about Sarah. She was a Director at a Fortune 500 company, on track for VP. From the outside, she had everything. From the inside, she
dawdled in her car before walking into the building most mornings.
Not because her job was terrible. Not because anyone was cruel to her.
But because somewhere between the last promotion and this one, she stopped recognizing herself.
When Sarah left to start her consulting practice, her former colleagues asked, “But aren’t you worried about throwing away everything you’ve built?”
What they couldn’t see: Sarah wasn’t throwing anything away. She was reclaiming it.
She took her strategic thinking, her industry expertise, her hard-won credibility—and she built something aligned with her values. Now she works with clients she chooses, on projects that matter, at a pace that sustains her.
70% of women business owners report being happy in their business journey, with 35% describing themselves as “very happy”. Compare that to the McKinsey data showing 60% of senior-level women in corporate experiencing frequent burnout.
This isn’t women opting out of ambition. It’s women choosing sovereignty.
Soul-Burnout vs. Sacred Ambition: Understanding the Difference
The exhaustion women feel in corporate isn’t just about workload. It’s what I call soul-burnout—depletion from being someone you’re not.
Soul-burnout happens when you:
→ Lead from someone else’s playbook
→ Code-switch constantly to be “professional”
→ Suppress your intuition to appear “strategic”
→ Calibrate every word to manage how you’re perceived
→ Achieve relentlessly but feel increasingly empty
The weight women carry isn’t just the work. It’s the performance. The constant negotiation of “how much of my authentic self is safe to bring here?”
Your body knows something your mind keeps trying to rationalize: This isn’t sustainable because it isn’t true.
Sacred Ambition is the antidote. It’s ambition rooted in stewardship of your soul’s purpose—not someone else’s definition of success.
The Data Tells a Different Story Than McKinsey Wants to Admit
Women now own 14.5 million businesses, representing 39.2% of all businesses, employing 12.9 million people, and generating $3.3 trillion in revenue.
Meanwhile, according to the Women in the Workplace report, women hold only 29% of C-suite positions despite representing nearly half the workforce. After decades of “leaning in,” the numbers have barely moved.
Women are doing the math. And increasingly, we’re choosing to build our own tables.
What This Movement Actually Represents
This isn’t a trend. It’s a transformation.
The 2025 era is characterized by the record-breaking emergence of women-led enterprises that are purpose-driven, values-oriented for service to community and environment, and values-led in their leadership.
Women aren’t just starting businesses for flexibility (though 54% of women-owned businesses reported profitability in 2025). They’re redefining what leadership looks like.
They’re creating:
→ Companies that prioritize impact alongside profit
→ Work cultures that honour human rhythms, not just productivity metrics
→ Business models that don’t require sacrificing wellbeing for success
→ Leadership that integrates head and heart
This is what happens when women stop trying to succeed in systems designed without them and start building systems that reflect their wholeness.
How to Recognize Sacred Ambition in Yourself
You might be experiencing the pull toward Sacred Ambition if:
You’re successful but disconnected. You have the title, the salary, the respect—but something feels fundamentally misaligned.
Your exhaustion lives in your bones. It’s not surface-level stress. It’s a deep depletion that no amount of self-care can touch.
You’re done performing. The code-switching, the calibrating, the constant management of how you’re perceived—it’s exhausting you more than the actual work.
You sense your ambition wants to go somewhere else. Not disappear. Not shrink. Just… redirect toward something that feels like yours.
You’re asking different questions. Not “How do I get promoted?” but “What am I actually being called to create?”
This isn’t confusion. It’s clarity trying to break through.
The Invitation: From Hustle to Harmony
Sacred Ambition doesn’t require you to abandon drive, discipline, or results. It requires you to reunite them with the parts of yourself you’ve been trained to suppress.
Practical shifts toward Sacred Ambition:
Redefine productivity as presence. Ask “How aligned did I feel while doing this?” instead of “What did I accomplish today?”
Honour your body’s wisdom. Your exhaustion, your 3am thoughts, your persistent sense that something’s off—that’s information, not weakness.
Build success that includes you. If your definition of success doesn’t include your wellbeing, redesign it.
Trust both/and thinking. You can be strategic AND spiritual. Logical AND intuitive. Ambitious AND grounded.
The Ripple Effect: When Women Lead From Sacred Ambition
When women begin leading from Sacred Ambition, the shift doesn’t stop with us.
Our teams feel it. Our families feel it. Our industries evolve.
Because when we embody balanced leadership—where intuition, empathy, and embodiment are recognized as strengths, not liabilities—we model a new paradigm for success itself.
Women entrepreneurs describe entrepreneurship as empowering them to “directly see and feel the results of their hard work” in ways corporate roles never allowed. They’re creating environments where effort and reward are transparently connected.
The next era of leadership isn’t about doing more. It’s about leading differently.
And it begins with women who are willing to stop contorting themselves to fit old systems and instead build new ones that reflect their wholeness.
What Corporate America Is Missing
Reports like Women in the Workplace frame women’s exodus as a problem to solve with better sponsorship, clearer advancement paths, and more flexible work arrangements.
They’re treating symptoms while ignoring the disease.
The real issue isn’t that women need better support within existing systems. It’s that the systems themselves are fundamentally misaligned with how sustainable success actually works.
When women choose Sacred Ambition over corporate climbing, we’re not opting out of leadership. We’re opting into a more evolved form of it.
We’re demonstrating that:
→ Success doesn’t require self-betrayal
→ Ambition can be aligned with wellbeing
→ Leadership is about creation, not just advancement
→ Your worth isn’t determined by your output
The Choice Before You
If you’re feeling the pull toward Sacred Ambition, you’re at a threshold.
You can keep trying to make the old model work—better boundaries, clearer communication, more strategic networking. You can lean in harder.
Or you can recognize that what you’re experiencing isn’t a failure of ambition. It’s ambition evolving.
Your body has been trying to tell you: The exhaustion isn’t coming from the work itself. It’s coming from the disconnection between who you are and what you’re building.
Sacred Ambition is the path back to yourself. To leadership that feels true. To success that sustains you.
Your ambition hasn’t fallen into a gap. It just needs a different source of power.
And that power? It’s been inside you all along. You’ve just been taught to override it in service of systems that were never designed to honour it.
If you’re ready to explore what Sacred Ambition looks like for you, reach out.

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